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Sponsor |  brantgurga | Oct 30, 2007 5:37am | | I am in a bit of a complicated situation and am looking for options. The girlfriend of a friend has been talking to me consistently on instant messenger and has given several indications of interest. I've brought it up and she and her boyfriend claim that she just comes off as flirtatious, but I think I've received way too many indications for it to be miscommunication I think. Regardless of what she really thinks, I definitely feel in love with her, and that by itself makes the situation complicated. There is more detail, so if you think it is important, just ask. I am looking for any insight or options I can find. I do know that what I feel is not jealousy because I have felt that before. I also know I don't feel about her how I feel about other female friends. |
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Sponsor | | Thomas-Jefferson | Oct 30, 2007 8:39am | | she sounds like bad news, avoid her if you can. Friends are worth more than whores. |
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|  AnnieListens | Dec 19, 2007 2:17pm | | Well, unlike the above response, my advice would be to simply drop the innuendo and flirting (if she has given you that many "indications," she must not be discouraged), and address it straight out. Without the *details*, calling someone a whore shows a judgmental meanness that seems cruel. The only option at this point is honesty and forthrightness. So disregard the above "advice" and address the situation honorably. |
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Sponsor | | Thomas-Jefferson | Dec 19, 2007 6:35pm | edit:
If you love more than you lust, find someone else, and discourage any further advances. You are either wrong about her, or she is bad news. Either way, find someone else.
p.s. how have things gone in the last three months? |
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